In a recent online spat, Bella Okagbue, former BBNaija reality star, took to direct messaging to express her deep frustration and hurt after a fan mocked her voice. The exchange began when a user, Jessica on the X app (formerly Twitter), reposted a video of Bella singing along to a song with her boyfriend, Sheggz.
In a heartfelt message to Jessica, Bella cursed the user's unborn children, stating that while financial success and a family might be in Jessica's future, one of her kids would suffer from a speech impediment. Bella conveyed the curse with evident emotional pain, noting that she typed the message with tears in her eyes.
Defending herself, Bella emphasized that, despite criticism, she has a voice and is grateful for her ability to speak. She reminded the user that she, too, is somebody's daughter. She concluded her message by wishing the user a lack of peace and urging her to remember the date of their conversation.
The clash sheds light on the emotional toll of online criticism on public figures and highlights the need for empathy and understanding in online interactions. The incident also underscores the broader issue of cyberbullying and the impact it can have on individuals, even those in the public eye.
Despite stating that the post was not meant to troll or harm Bella, Jessica faced backlash from both the public and Bella herself. Bella expressed her frustration with the incident, sharing her weariness of being consistently subjected to various forms of shaming, including comments on her body, voice, and accent.
Public sentiment largely sided with Bella, arguing that the post, accompanied by a laughing emoji, conveyed a mocking tone rather than harmless humor. The incident highlights the ongoing challenges faced by public figures in dealing with online criticism and the blurred lines between humor and mockery in social media interactions.